Adrian Polidano

Written by a Grandview parent

My husband and I are proud parents to three beautiful children, ages seven, five and three months. There is never a dull moment in our house, and we wouldn’t change one bit of it.

Seven years ago, our beautiful baby girl, Ariana, was born. She was the image of perfection and everything we could have dreamt of. Shortly after birth, she was having trouble breathing and was put in the neonatal intensive care unit (NICU) for the first time. As new parents, we were terrified but had all the faith in the world that she would be okay and we would be taking her home in no time.

The next day, the paediatrician walked in to inform us that her breathing was under control, but he also let us know that the breathing issue was the least of his concerns. At this time, we received the very unexpected news that Ariana was born with Down Syndrome and had a hole in her heart.

Having so much information thrown at us all at once was indescribable. We had a diagnosis, health complications, appointments to rush to and juggling just being first-time parents. To say the first three months of Ariana’s life were overwhelming is a complete understatement. It was incredibly isolating and daunting trying to navigate this world alone.

This is where our journey with Grandview Kids began. I remember the first time I walked through the doors, not knowing what to expect. I was greeted with smiles from the staff, eager to meet our sweet girl. It was the first time anyone said, “Congratulations.” I could finally breathe again, knowing that we had found our place—a place of acceptance, love and support.

Ariana has received many services through Grandview Kids, including Physiotherapy, Occupational Therapy, Speech-Language Pathology, Medical Services and Social Work. Ariana has moved mountains with her development and continues to blow us away daily. She has come from being non-verbal to now speaking in sentences. She holds her pencil perfectly and is practicing writing her name by herself. She runs, jumps, rides a bike and swims like a fish. I could go on and on about everything she can do today that took a lot of practice, determination and guidance from Grandview Kids.

My family would not be where we are today without the help of Grandview Kids. Clients and caregivers in the Durham Region can utilize life-changing programs and services that changed my little girl’s life.

Meet Grandview Kids Volunteer, Kerry L.!

How long have you been volunteering at Grandview Kids?

Since June 2023!

Has anything interesting happened to you while you were volunteering at Grandview Kids?

While volunteering at a Family Engagement art event, a child was reluctant to try the activity, stating, “I am just not good at art.” After some gentle persuasion, he tried it and created a beautiful abstract painting. He was so delighted with the outcome that he created a second artwork. After completing everything, he stated, “I think I am an artist- I never knew this, and I can’t wait to tell my mom!.” Seeing the joy in his discovering his inner talent and potential was beyond heartwarming. 

What is the best part of volunteering at Grandview Kids for you? 

There is a sense of community and caring, where everyone is welcome and belongs. There is a connection at Grandview Kids between clients, caregivers, and staff that you do not find in other organizations.

Who inspires you to volunteer or give back? 

The children and youth at Grandview Kids are my inspiration.

What would you say to someone who was thinking about volunteering at Grandview Kids?

At Grandview Kids, a volunteer is indeed a member of the team. Grandview invests in its volunteers and supports them well by providing comprehensive training, weekly updates, and staff support, all while offering a wide variety of volunteer opportunities.

Written by Grandview Kids OT, Suvaathy V.

October is Occupational Therapy (OT) Month in Canada! OT month is about celebrating and raising awareness about occupational therapy, a very diverse profession with one main goal: helping people live the best lives they can.

What is Occupational Therapy?

When we think of the word “occupation,” we often think of “work,” but occupations are everyday activities that you need to do, want to do or are expected to do. Occupations generally fall into three categories:

Self-care: feeding, sleeping, dressing, toileting, personal hygiene
Productivity: participating in school activities (handwriting), routines, chores, job skills
Leisure: play development, participation in community activities, sports

OT is a health profession that enables people across their lifespan to engage in activities essential for their well-being, independence, and overall quality of life. OT considers the person as a whole by considering how their ability relates to their environment and the activities they want to do.

What do Occupational Therapists do?

When someone cannot participate in daily activities due to injury, illness, disability or social and environmental barriers, an Occupational Therapist will work with them to develop strategies to help them participate in meaningful occupations. Occupational Therapists work in various settings, such as hospitals, clinics, schools and the community.

At Grandview Kids, Occupational Therapists work with children, their families and other professionals to help children carry out their daily activities to the best of their ability. Occupational Therapists can help identify the child’s strengths and abilities, suggest ways to simplify the activity, implement adaptive equipment to help the child do the activity, suggest changes to the environment to support the child in doing the activity, break down the activity into small steps and help the child develop new skills to do the activity.

In honour of OT Month and World OT Day, we asked staff what OT means to them and why they chose to pursue the profession.

“I love the variety of the work I can do as an OT. The fact that it focuses on the person and what brings value to their life and what they want to be able to do is key. I can pull out my creative and practical brain to help solve their challenges as they see them. I became an OT after being amazed by young people doing their thing at Easter Seals camps and wanting to support them to be able to do that.” – Marika Beaumont, Clinical Manager

“My favourite part about working in Cccupational Therapy is how creative we get to be to support our clients in a way that is meaningful and motivating to them! Every person is so unique, and being able to support a client in a way that suits them is super rewarding!” – Emily Fredericks, Occupational Therapist

“I love OT because it is a profession embedded in kindness and human connection – dedicated to understanding a person and their dreams, learning what is meaningful, inspiring hope-filled environments and discovering how to get there together. We choose to look at things from a different perspective. To see a person with an injury, illness or disability and to also see the same person’s strength, potential and goals is a pretty incredible thing.” – Suvaathy Vigneswaran, Occupational Therapist

During OT month, there are two special dates to remember:

October 12: Occupational Therapy Assistant (OTA) Appreciation Day
- By working collaboratively with occupational therapists, OTAs play a key role in supporting the delivery of OT services to clients, families, and communities.
October 27: World Occupational Therapy Day
- This year’s World Occupational Therapy Day theme is “Occupational Therapy for All.”

Let’s take this month as an opportunity to acknowledge and appreciate the dedicated OTs and OTAs who positively impact so many lives. If you know an OT or OTA, take a moment to express your gratitude and recognize their tireless efforts in helping others!

Originating in the United States as Lesbian and Gay History Month in 1994, it is a month-long observance of the history of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) rights movement. LGBT History Month was founded by Missouri high school history teacher Rodney Wilson, who believed that it was important to recognize and celebrate the achievements and contributions of the LGBT community and to raise awareness of the discrimination and challenges that LGBT people face.

While this awareness month is preceded by the acronym “LGBT,” it is critical to recognize that it is not entirely inclusive of the community it aims to represent. When referring to sexual and gender-diverse communities, opt instead for the acronym “2SLGBTQI+,” which represents Two-Spirit, lesbian, gay, bisexual transgender, queer, intersex and additional people who identify as part of sexual and gender-diverse communities. Note that the Government of Canada has officially adopted the acronym “2SLGBTQI+” as a more comprehensive alternative to “LGBT.”

Breaking down the acronym further: The “2S” at the front recognizes Two-Spirit people as the first 2SLGBTQI+ communities. The “I” for intersex considers sex characteristics beyond sexual orientation, gender identity and gender expression. The “+” is inclusive of people who identify as part of sexual and gender diverse communities, who use additional terminologies.

Read this helpful FAQ-style document from SEE Change Happen* to learn more about LGBT History Month. It includes information on the difference between this awareness month and Pride Month, how the 2SLGBTQI+ community has been erased in history, what the role of an ally is, and more.

*SEE Change Happen is a United Kingdom (UK)- based organization. The UK observes LGBT History Month in February, as referenced in the FAQ. While the article is from last year, it provides a solid basis for understanding the significance of acknowledging and understanding 2SLGBTQI+ history.

Written by IDEA Study Research Assistant, Kaylan

The IDEA Study is a research study that Grandview Kids and Ontario Tech University have partnered on. It investigates the intersection of race and disability and how this intersection affects access to paediatric rehabilitation and developmental services. To help identify this study, a logo has been created, and it can be found on all material related to the IDEA Study. Read on to learn more about the IDEA Study logo!

Starting with the inner circle of the logo, this has the words “IDEA Study” in the centre. This comes from the fact that the research team is approaching this study through the lens of Inclusivity, Diversity, Equity and Accessibility. If put together, these words form the acronym “IDEA” which is how our study is known outside of its official name, “Building knowledge and understanding of the intersection of race and disability in accessing paediatric rehabilitation services.”

Inclusivity or inclusion involves appreciating, recognizing and using the skills and talents of individuals of all backgrounds.³ Diversity involves including the numerous identities, races, communities, backgrounds, abilities, ethnicities, beliefs and cultures of the people, including those from underserved communities.³ Equity involves systematically and consistently treating all individuals fairly, justly and impartially.³ Accessibility includes that programs and services, facilities and information and communication technology are constructed, designed, developed and maintained such that they can be used independently and fully by individuals with disabilities.³

The outer circle of the logo includes symbols that represent disability. The goal of using these symbols of disability was to represent the Grandview Kids community. Grandview Kids serves children and youth with physical, communication and developmental needs, and their families. As such, the symbols in the logo include a sunflower, which represents non-visible disability; the forward movement symbol of a person using a wheelchair which represents physical disability; a rainbow infinity symbol representing Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) which is a developmental disability; and the universal access symbol for sign language interpretation which represents communicative disability. While not all disabilities are represented within this logo, these were chosen for their design aspects and their collective broad representation of the Grandview Kids community.

We hope that this explanation has clarified why the IDEA Study logo was created and what it symbolizes. For more information, please visit https://grandviewkids.ca/research/ideastudy/.

References

About the author

Kaylan is a current Ontario Tech undergraduate student working on the IDEA Study as a Research Assistant. She is also a former Grandview Kids client who is passionate about helping other children and youth with disabilities. She believes that being a part of the IDEA Study is a way to give back to the Grandview Kids community that helped her live the life she does today and to help other children and youth with disabilities like her.

In September, we acknowledge International Pain Awareness Month, Chiari Malformation Awareness Month, Ganesh Chaturthi, Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy Awareness Day, Worldwide Cystic Fibrosis Day, Fetal Alcohol Syndrome Day, World Suicide Prevention Day, International Myotonic Dystrophy Awareness Day, World Lymphoma Day, World Patient Safety Day, World Chronic Myeloid Leukemia Day, and International Day of Sign Languages. Below, read more about each date of significance, written by members of our Inclusivity, Diversity, Equity and Accessibility (IDEA) Committee.

International Pain Awareness Month

September is International Pain Awareness Month. This month is dedicated to raising awareness and understanding pain. We know that many adults and children alike experience chronic pain due to their varying diagnoses. Pain management is an essential factor that can determine a person’s quality of life. Some of our Grandview Kids families share how pain impacts their family’s daily living and the different ways they help to manage their brave children’s pain.

“Cerebral palsy causes my child lifelong pain due to the spasticity in his muscles. To manage his pain and ease the tightness in his legs, we do daily stretches taught by our physiotherapist, use knee-immobilizers while in long-legged sitting and administer over-the-counter pain medication, such as acetaminophen when necessary. We also attend Grandview Kids’ Botox Clinic every 4-6 months to receive Botox shots that are quite painful at the moment but create huge but temporary relief. As a parent, I would switch places to take the pain away from my child, but I am also very proud of my child’s resiliency and strength.”

“There were times I felt helpless and frustrated, unable to take away my child’s pain. I prayed to God, asking to let me bear his pain and free him from it. In those moments, I realized just how deeply I loved my child.”

“Due to our child’s kidney issues, we have to limit the use of pain medication. This led us to explore alternative treatments, including homeopathy, oils, chiropractic care, and many prayers. These approaches have made a difference in managing his pain levels.”

“I have broken down in tears, seeing my son in unbearable pain. Despite his own suffering, he saw my helplessness and reassured me that he was feeling better, even pretending his pain wasn’t as severe to keep me from being upset. To me, he is a true hero.”

“For families just beginning their journey with pain, I want to say: take it one day at a time and explore as many alternatives as possible to manage pain. Talk to others, learn what has worked for them, and draw strength from their experiences as parents. Never overlook when your child says they are in pain—listen closely and respond with love. Sometimes, the smallest gestures, like singing a song or reading a book, can work like magic to divert their attention from constant discomfort. Above all, never lose hope, and know that your presence alone is a source of immense comfort to your child.”

“Living with pain in our family, especially after our daughter’s recent hip surgery, has been quite challenging. We face each day as it comes, trying our best to manage her discomfort. Some days are particularly tough, even though we exhaust all efforts to ease her pain. We navigate this difficult time by seeking help whenever possible and supporting each other as best as we can.

For families just beginning their journey with pain, remember to do everything you can to manage the situation, but don’t feel guilty on the days when it feels like nothing is working. It’s important to take breaks when you can, as self-care is crucial. You are doing your best, and that’s what truly matters.”

Chiari Malformation Awareness Month

Chiari malformation is a condition where part of the cerebellum extends into the spinal canal, which can pressure the brainstem and spinal cord. There are four types, with Type I being the most common, causing symptoms like headaches, neck pain, dizziness, and balance problems. Types II and III are more severe and often diagnosed in infancy, leading to significant neurological issues. Diagnosis is usually done with MRI scans. Treatment varies depending on the severity, ranging from monitoring and pain management to surgery to relieve pressure on the brain and spinal cord. Early detection and treatment are crucial for managing symptoms and preventing complications. September is Chiari Malformation Awareness Month, a time dedicated to raising awareness about this condition and supporting those affected.

Sept 6: Ganesh Chaturthi

Ganesh Chaturthi is a Hindu celebration that honours the birth of Lord Ganesh, the god of wisdom and prosperity. This celebration is being observed as a 10-day festival starting on September 6, 2024. During this time, idols of Ganesh are offered food and anointed. Observers will chant vedic hymns, give prayers and fast. Lord Ganesh is known as the remover of obstacles and is often seen to bring good fortune, prosperity and success to his devotees. We would like to take this time to wish any staff celebrating a happy Ganesh Chaturthi!

Sept 7: Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy Awareness Day

Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy (DMD) is a rare progressive disorder. People with DMD are missing muscle-protecting proteins. This is due to a fault in the gene-producing dystrophin. Muscles become weaker over time until the disease affects the whole body. It is caused by a mutation on the X-chromosome, which is why mainly males are affected.

First, walking becomes difficult, and then other motor functions follow. Ultimately, it affects the ability to breathe and the function of the heart, as the heart is also a muscle. The missing protein also functions in the brain, so learning and behaviour issues can also be part of the disease.

In most countries, the average age of diagnosis of DMD is above four years of age, and the diagnostic delay is around 2.5 years. Parents see symptoms much earlier, and some symptoms are already visible when the children are very young.

Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy is named after Dr. Duchenne de Boulogne, one of the first to report the disease in detail in the 1860s.

This year’s World Duchenne Awareness Day theme emphasizes the importance of amplifying voices to advocate for the rights, inclusion and well-being of people living with Duchenne muscular dystrophy (DMD) and other dystrophinopathies. We invite everyone, irrespective of their personal connection to Duchenne, to join in creating a more inclusive world where people living with disabilities are empowered to thrive. #WorldDuchenneAwarenessDay.

Sept 8: Worldwide Cystic Fibrosis Day

Cystic fibrosis (CF) is the most common fatal genetic disease affecting more than 4,300 Canadian children, adolescents, and young adults. Half of the Canadians who died with CF in the past five years were under the age of 37. Unfortunately, there is no current cure.

CF affects many systems in the body but mainly affects the digestive system and lungs.

Typical symptoms and complications caused by cystic fibrosis are:

Persistent cough with productive thick mucous
Wheezing and shortness of breath
Weight loss or failure to gain weight despite possible increased appetite
Difficulty digesting fats and proteins
Malnutrition and vitamin deficiencies because of the inability to absorb nutrients
Progressive lung damage from chronic infections and inflammation
CF-related diabetes
Sinus infections

For more information, please visit www.cysticfibrosis.ca/about-cf

Sept 9: Fetal Alcohol Syndrome Day

Fetal Alcohol Syndrome Day is observed every year on September 9 to raise awareness about Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorders (FASD). First recognized in 1999, the date 9/9 symbolizes the nine months of pregnancy, during which women must abstain from alcohol to protect their developing fetus from harm. Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder (FASD) refers to a range of lifelong effects on the brain and body caused by prenatal exposure to alcohol.

Individuals with FASD may face challenges in various aspects of their daily lives, including motor skills, physical health, learning, memory, attention, communication, emotional regulation, and social skills. Despite these challenges, every individual with FASD has unique strengths and can reach their full potential with the proper support. FASD is a lifelong condition, but with increased awareness and understanding, we can better support those affected and work towards preventing future cases. Today, we encourage everyone to learn more about FASD, share this vital message, and support individuals and families impacted by this disorder.

Learn more about the impact of alcohol:

Sept 10: World Suicide Prevention Day

World Suicide Prevention Day, held every year on September 10, is a global effort to raise awareness about the critical issue of suicide and to promote actions that can help prevent it. This day is a call to action for individuals, communities and organizations to come together in support of those who may be struggling with suicidal thoughts or mental health challenges. It emphasizes the importance of understanding, compassion and open dialogue in breaking down the stigma that often surrounds mental illness.

Through educational campaigns, supportive networks and accessible resources, World Suicide Prevention Day seeks to create a world where everyone feels heard, valued and connected, reducing the tragic loss of life and offering hope to those in need. By fostering a culture of empathy and care, we can work towards a future where suicide is no longer seen as the only option.

Sept 15: International Myotonic Dystrophy Awareness Day

Myotonic dystrophy (DM) is a form of muscular dystrophy that affects muscles and other organs in the body. “Myotonia” is defined as the inability to relax muscles at will. “Muscular dystrophy” is defined as progressive muscle degeneration, with weakness and shrinkage of the muscle tissue. International Myotonic Dystrophy Awareness Day aims to bring awareness to the broader public and anyone interested in changing the future of myotonic dystrophy.

Raising awareness of myotonic dystrophy will help improve service provision, basic research, drug development, and policymaking related to the disease. Wear green on September 15 to raise awareness!

Sept 15: World Lymphoma Awareness Day

On Sunday, September 15, it is the 20th anniversary of World Lymphoma Day. The theme of this year focuses on the emotional effects of living with Lymphoma. A yearly trend that comes out of the Global Patient Survey on Lymphoma shows that most patients and caregivers experience emotional effects during their diagnosis, including anxiety, depression and fear of cancer progression.

Having honest conversations can help. Creating a link between caregivers and patients, as well as their healthcare teams, can help foster an understanding and support blanket for those affected.

Sept 17: World Patient Safety Day

World Patient Safety Day, observed annually on September 17, is a significant occasion to reaffirm our commitment to patient and client safety. This year, we are joining hands with healthcare professionals around the world to raise awareness about the importance of patient safety and to promote open dialogue on this critical issue.

At Grandview Kids, our focus is on fostering a culture of transparency and accountability in client care. Together, let’s continue to ensure that every client receives safe and effective care and strive to continuously improve our services for the well-being of all.

Thank you to all who contribute to the many programs and services available to our families. We all play a very important role in our clients’ and families’ experiences, and doing so safely is a significant priority.

Sept 23: World Chronic Myeloid Leukemia Day

World Chronic Myeloid Leukemia (CML) Day is on September 22 each year. It’s a special day to learn about and raise awareness for chronic myeloid leukemia, a type of cancer that affects the blood and bone marrow. People with CML have too many white blood cells, which can make them very sick. This day is important because it helps us understand CML and how it impacts those with it.

To help today, you can start by learning about CML and sharing what you know with friends and family. Another great way to support is by donating to organizations that are working hard to find better treatments and cures. Your efforts can make a big difference for people living with CML and help improve their lives.

Sept 23: International Day of Sign Languages

We recognize International Day of Sign Languages (IDSL) annually on September 23 with the goal of celebrating and encouraging the use of sign languages. The date chosen for IDSL falls during International Week of the Deaf and commemorates when The World Federation of the Deaf (WFD) was founded in 1951. WFD is a global movement to raise awareness of the issues Deaf people face in their everyday lives. Sign language is a valuable means of communicating across different languages and cultures and is not limited in use by the Deaf community. Many individuals in our Grandview Kids community, including parents with their babies/toddlers and non-verbal children, learn American Sign Language as an alternative and/or bridge to verbal communication.