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James came to Grandview Kids when he was just over a year old. Here, he met his Physiotherapist, Winnie, to improve his physical skills.  In his early physiotherapy sessions, James and his mother, Hayley, practiced skills he had never worked on before. The movements were new and challenging to James. While experiencing difficulties, he would cry to let his mother know that he was outside his realm of comfort. Hearing her son vocalizing his discomfort was hard for Hayley.

After continuing to practice and seeing James’ progress, Hayley recognized the importance of not giving in. She wanted to see her son succeed and achieve his full potential. This shift in progress was the ‘turning point’ for Hayley. Moving forward, Hayley wanted to be the strong figure she knew her son needed to achieve his full potential. This is a lesson Hayley wants to share with other families who may be in the same situation. She tells her story below and hopes to inspire others with her experience and James’ progress, thanks to the incredible support of his Physiotherapist, Winnie.

Read James and Hayley’s full story below:

Things I wish I knew then, that I know now

Written by Hayley Duncan

From the very beginning, James had struggles, and as a mother, my instincts were to keep my baby safe, free from harm and discomfort. I began to anticipate James’ every need because he was struggling day-to-day for reasons out of my control. I did everything in my power to control whatever I could to provide him with some comfort and relief. When I met with Winnie at Grandview Kids for our first assessment, James was around 13-months-old. At this time, he was not able to sit up on his own, let alone rollover. James spent the majority of the appointment comfort nursing as I explained his first year of life.

It was apparent that James needed a significant amount of support, and that’s when our journey with Winnie began. When I think back to this time, and to where I am now, all the things I have seasoned through and how much growth James and I have had, I wish I could go back to our very first session and tell myself to be strong ‘like a rock’ and push. I wish I could tell myself that we both would get through this, and come up on the other side.

Three things I wish I knew then, that I know now

1. In the beginning, there will be crying… a lot of crying. For our littles, this is all new to them. Physiotherapy is hard; kids don’t want to do these hard things, and crying is how they let us know. Once I realized that: a) this was not in any way hurting him, it was him telling me, “it’s hard, Mom;” and b) if I did not toughen up and be strong for him, he was going to make NO progress. It was my job as his mom to push him when he needed the push, or I was holding him back from reaching his full potential and having a better quality of life. Every time I would stop a session to comfort James, I would teach him that if he would cry, Mommy would just put an end to it. These habits are hard ones to break and can be a big downfall as you continue with care. Two years into speech therapy, and I am still trying to correct habits like this. I can assure you that as time goes on, the crying will be less and less, and then one day your child will enter a session willingly.

2. If you do not practice what is taught in the session, progress will be slow and stagnant. Once a week, or every two, is not enough to learn these huge skills, but repetition enables this. It’s so hard for special needs parents to stay on top of it all, but time needs to be set aside for progress to happen. I could shake my old self about this one; I still have some guilt hanging around.

3. Sometimes, progress is minimal. It is a slow, slow process, and then sometimes there will be a leap. Whatever the case, try and keep a level head. And, if you can truthfully say, with an honest heart, you are doing everything you can in that moment, then find comfort in knowing it will come. I’m so proud of James (and myself!) for how far we’ve come.

If you have a story about your Grandview Kids experience you’d like to share, email communications@grandviewkids.ca to be featured on our blog.

The perks of play: How playing outdoors makes for a more physically literate child

Written by Grandview Kids Physiotherapist, Corrie

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As any parent can attest, it often feels like as soon as children learn to move, their instinct is to move away from us and explore the world for themselves.

A child’s need to explore their surroundings intensifies as soon as they get outside. With so many new textures, obstacles, and areas to discover, the outdoors is truly a wonderland for young children.  As parents, we often cringe when we see our tiny bundles playing outside and our heads (and hearts) can get overloaded with the risks that they seem quite happy to take. 

It is important to remember that as much as we’d like to protect our little ones from ever getting hurt, exploring their world and taking risks is what helps develop much-needed gross motor skills that they will use their entire life. 

Playing outside is the best place to work on skills requiring balance and coordination and these skills help toddlers interact with the world around them and learn complex physical activities. Running, jumping, kicking, throwing, catching and climbing are all skills that toddlers are just starting to learn, and are the building blocks for becoming physically literate.

Physical literacy is described as the motivation, confidence, physical competence, knowledge and understanding to value and take responsibility for engagement in physical activities.

According to experts at Physical and Health Education Canada, Children who are physically literate move with competence and confidence in a wide variety of physical activities in multiple environments that benefit the healthy development of the whole person.

Research has shown that being physically active as an adult depends on a person’s ability to feel confident in an activity setting. Research has also shown that without the development of physical literacy, many children and youth withdraw from physical activity and sport and turn to more inactive and/or unhealthy choices during their leisure time.

There are 12 fundamental movement skills that are considered building blocks for physical literacy. They are: running, hopping, skipping, rolling, standing on one foot, jumping, kicking, dribbling, throwing, catching and swinging with arms (ie. a bat, a stick, etc).

Children usually learn to walk indoors on smooth, level floors, which may even be carpeted.  When they start to move on their own two feet outside, they are challenged by uneven ground, funny textures and hills and holes that they might not see.  Taking a nature hike is an excellent way to teach children about the beauty of the outdoors, while challenging their small legs to overcome the obstacles along the path. Think of it as a natural obstacle course.  Stepping over small sticks and tree roots helps teach children how to stand on one foot.  Ducking under low branches teaches squatting and strengthens leg muscles.  Mud puddles are always a fun way to teach jumping – either jumping over or jumping in! Even small trips or dips can help children learn how to catch their balance and prevent a fall.

Another great outdoor space is the playground. Consider walking along the sidewalk curb to get there – a great way to work on balance as the child must narrow their base of support and walk with feet in front of each other. Climbing structures strengthen both arms and legs, and swings and slides improve balance, coordination and endurance. Furthermore, it is not uncommon to see children working together at the playground to help one another succeed, which builds teamwork and an empathetic mindset.

All of these skills will help to build a toddler’s confidence, so make sure that your child is getting lots of literacy time – outdoors.

For more information on physical literacy visit www.phecanada.ca

Written by Grandview Kids Occupational Therapist, Desiree

I feel represented. My children are represented. The students on my caseload are represented more than ever before!  What am I talking about, you ask?  As a black woman, mother and an Occupational Therapist (OT), I am thrilled to see myself in historical characters, such as Harriet Tubman, on the big movie screen. 

I am encouraged for my sons when they see the late Chadwick Boseman play the dynamic Black Panther in theatres.  I am hopeful for the children on my caseload, who are on the Autism Spectrum, when their future employers get comfortable seeing Freddie Highmore play the brilliant Dr. Shaun Murphy on the hit T.V. show, The Good Doctor.  Lastly, I am inspired by Paras Patel, who plays the disciple with Asperger’s Syndrome, on the sensational YouTube series, The Chosen. 

We cannot be what we cannot see. So, I am so happy to be seeing such representation in entertainment, appreciating we still have work to do. If all the world is a stage, then there is enough room for each of us to have an opportunity to shine. 

Article submitted by Marshall Hohmann, Ability Awareness Presenter and Grandview Grad

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There are readers and there are writers. They need each other.

Written words can be simple and effective.

Words with a purpose.

Words we desire to share.

Written words of gratitude

Writing our feelings for mental health therapy or love.

The written word allows me to speak as a non-verbal person.

Writing shows character and validates one’s self.

My words are simple, but my thoughts are from deep down within my heart, my mind, and my very soul.

As I write now and, in the future, I encourage you the reader, to write for the benefit of others; family, friends, and community.

The reader may gain much understanding and comfort from seeing the words rather than just hearing them. What is expressed verbally is not often heard by others, but when those thoughts are put on paper, the reader pauses to digest.

Life gets busy and we’re not drawn to put our expressive thoughts on paper, but I encourage you to write because thoughts you can now see can be visualized even deeper.

Perhaps you can think about journaling. You may never know what transpires between writer and reader, or the comfort, encouragement and gratitude received (even if the reader is yourself).

So be inspired, put pen to paper… You may be surprised!

These last few weeks of social distancing haven’t been easy for a guy who has to get people to help him with everything in his life from the time I get up until I go to bed. I have had to really rethink my support.  I decided to have my agencies for my personal support workers only to get me up and put me to bed. My day normally involves emails for work, putting finishing touches on talks, going to ODSP, chiropractor, and playing chess. My mental health has been greatly challenged by this because unlike most of you, I can’t clean my house, do dishes, make things in my home shop. For someone like myself that can’t use their hands to complete simple acts of occupation such as creating meals for my family or sorting my closet are not ways I can spend my time. Going biking with friends, or going to the gym have all been put on hold for now so I am making the best of what I can do and that is writing blogs with hope for our Grandview staff and our wonderful families that we serve, helping them realize that we will get through this. We will be stronger as a community at the end and your children will continue to grow and learn.

Let’s put everything in perspective. I have a big enough house to comfortably roll my wheelchair around in, it’s warm, we have light and there is no lack of food or clean running water. In some areas of the world people live in eight by ten “cells”. Parents and children and others having basically enough room to be able to sleep… imagine isolation there! In many oppressed countries the grocery stores shelves are always empty and people wait for hours for fresh fruit and meat which rarely comes. Young women carry jugs of water that are found miles away from their village. Let’s face it, folks, we are extremely blessed.

Submitted by Marshall Hohmann, Ability Awareness Presenter and Grandview Grad